Using Ephesians 4:29 as a key jump-off Scripture for communication expectations from God’s perspective, Pastor Dave led the staff in brainstorming the biblical speech patterns to avoid and to pursue:
Unwholesome talk looks like: (tears down)
- grumbling
- slandering
- being critical
- gossiping
- coarse jesting
- impurity
- sarcasm
- too quick
- flattery
- clanging cymbals (without love)
- excessive
- defensive
- exaggeration
- lying
- angry
- rebellious
- bitter
- mockery
- hurtful
- divisive
- proud
Wholesome talk looks like: (builds up)
- compliments
- truth in love
- gracious/grace-filled
- patient
- comforting
- edifying/encouraging
- few
- appropriate
- thoughtful
- thanksgiving/praise
- reverent
- tactful
- with Scripture
- wise
- seasoned
- humble
- challenging
- in-person
- kindness
- honoring
- pure
